Miss L's Boudoir Experience

January 1, 2021

WHAT WAS YOUR REASON FOR BOOKING A BOUDOIR SHOOT?
Hearing “you’re beautiful, just look at you” yet not having that “feeling” inside me was absolutely gut wrenching. It took a little part of me every time i heard it.
Not only was it destroying me as a person, but it was slowly ruining my relationship. Since this experience I can truly say that I love myself, I feel confidence both in my body and in my mind. Maybe somedays more than others, but one thing I have learnt is that you need to feel some love for yourself before letting someone else love everything about you and not “believing” them. 
Kept watching the posts on Instagram and thought it would be a very uplifting, fun and empowering experience ! 

HOW DID YOU FEEL GOING INTO YOUR SESSION?
I felt like the time before my shoot was DRAGGING. Nervous to say the least..
Though that feeling quickly diminished after feeling beyond welcomed in the studio! 
We sorted through outfits, Jess did her thing & I was off to hair + make up with Meg & Tuni!

HOW DID YOU FEEL DURING YOUR SESSION?
This was HUGE for me. One of my only worries, to be completely honest. Those “what if’s” were LOUD in my head. 
From the moment I arrived at the studio to the point I walked out, I can 100% say I had very little anxiety, each and every one of those “what if’s” never popped into my head. Every single lady in that room while getting ready for the shoot wants to see you look & feel good about yourself. They will take suggestions, along with give them! (in the kindest ways - again, you can tell these ladies truly care about their clients)
As Jess mentions on her FAQ she will 100% pose you. From past photo shoots with other photographers only being told how to pose, Jess goes above and beyond, hopping right on in there by SHOWING her clients step by step on how to get into + hold a pose. This is huge for people who may have never had this type of experience before.
During my session I felt so at home. Jess and her assistant literally made me feel like we’ve known each other for years. I didn’t get anxious like I normally would. 

HOW DID YOU FEEL LEAVING YOUR SESSION?

Confident-Demi Lovato 😍🙌🏻


WOULD YOU SAY YOUR BOUDOIR EXPERIENCE HAD AN IMPACT ON YOUR DAILY LIFE? IF SO, HOW?

Absolutely in the most positive ways!

I went from having zero to little self confidence, to now feeling how others see me. “Beautiful on the inside & out” is a hard thing to hear from somebody when you yourself don’t personally feel it.

Jess did an amazing job at knocking the shell off of my back!

Sometimes when I’m feeling no so good I go back and look at the pics and remind myself how I rocked it and how good I felt about myself. 



DID YOU NOTICE A DIFFERENCE IN THE WAY YOU FELT ABOUT YOURSELF (MENTALLY OR PHYSICALLY) AFTER YOUR EXPERIENCE?

I went from struggling everyday with my self worth, to feeling like a bad ass bitch every-time I walk out of my door.


HOW DID YOU FEEL WHEN VIEWING YOUR GALLERY FOR THE FIRST TIME?

Overwhelmed would be an understatement. 

I sat and looked at all of the pictures for hours in awe. 

I genuinely couldn’t believe that who I was looking at, was me. Not only did I LOOK beautiful, but for the first time in years.. I FEEL beautiful. The hardest part was picking what ones I wanted to keep!!


WHAT DID YOUR EXPERIENCE MEAN/REPRESENT TO YOU?

In the simplest form, self appreciation. 

Love & Respect. 



WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO SOMEONE THINKING ABOUT BOOKING THEIR OWN SESSION?

Don’t think, just do - From hair & make up to the initial shoot, each and every single woman that is in the room while getting ready will GAS YOU UP. 

From someone who struggles with severe social anxiety, I was made to feel “at home”. 

The initial shoot was the most self rewarding feeling I have ever experienced for myself - hands down.

Since having my first shoot with Jess, I have convinced so many ladies to do the same. Embrace what you have, no money can fix how you truly see yourself. You ARE beautiful in the skin you’re in ❤️

If you are just thinking about doing it then you should totally do it. It’s so worth it!! It changes how you look at yourself and makes you a confident person! Also the bonus is that you’ll have some hot ass pics when you’re done! 

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